How to track one's computer?

**frankaiyy** · 07-26-2012, 12:58 AM

My girlfriend and I are in different state, I am afraid that she will cheat on me, so I want to remotely install a tracking software on her computer, so I can read her messages. Do you know how can I do this?

**Jflynn4** · 07-26-2012, 05:57 PM

Can I suggest getting another GF if you're that concerned! If the current one finds tracking software, you're a dead man anyway.

**strutswell** · 07-28-2012, 04:07 PM

LOL agreed. If you can't trust her not to cheat on you, then obviously she can't trust you not to spy on her. Sounds like bad news all around. Also keep in mind spying on people is illegal especially in your country! If you go to prison you won't have to worry about girlfriends anymore at least...

**zapjb** · 07-28-2012, 08:23 PM

Cut the cord now.

**DRNewcomb** · 07-29-2012, 01:52 AM

If you can't trust her, you're better off without her. If you have to spy on her, she's better off without you.

**frankaiyy** · 07-30-2012, 02:20 AM

Originally Posted by DRNewcomb

If you can't trust her, you're better off without her. If you have to spy on her, she's better off without you.

What if she really cheats on me?

**DRNewcomb** · 07-30-2012, 01:33 PM

Originally Posted by frankaiyy

What if she really cheats on me?

I think you're missing the point. If you can't trust each other you can't substitute constant spying for trust. It's a poisoned relationship. You either need to accept an open relationship or bail out ASAP. The solution to the problem is not found in a computer program, it's in your (both of your) head(s).